Adulthood Entry of Boy-Girl

Sex and Health

Masturbation in Males and Females

Dispelling Myths about Sex

Sexual Fantasy

The First Night

How to Arouse a Woman

Erogenous Female Zones

Vaginal Stimulation for Easy Entry

Tips to Enhance  Males Sex Desire

How to Arouse a Man

Use Your Mouth to Arouse him

Different  Charming Postures

Make Sex Hotter

 

Post-Coital Pleasure

Having sex puts men to sleep  but wakes women  up. So while you're desperately craving a little post-coital  colseness with your man, he's zoned out in front idiot  box. Why, you wonder? Unfortunately, the cocktail of sex hormones released after both women and men climax can have totally opposite effects on our post sex wish list. "Studies show that following  intercourse the male brain often goes into a rest state- he feels drained and tired- while the woman's brain is stimulated and sex desires bonding," explains Michael Gurian, therapist and author of What Could He Be Thinking:  How A Man's Mind Really Works.

Fear not, though. We've  overcome those biological obstacles and identified after in sex-play pleasures that will satisfy you both. Some  are designed to short-circuit  his snooze reflex and electrify his body; others indulge his just-shagged daze while feeding your need for intimacy.  Read on to discover the randy moves that will create the most pleasurable  and satisfying after-sex moments you have had with your man yet.

Pay him a carnal compliment : Guys are suckers are hearing about their sizzling sex skills. When you mention the  mattress moves that drove you wild, it strokes his ego and makes him feel virile. "Men can feel anxious  about their performance, so they really want to hear it from you that you had a good time in bed," says Judy Kuriansky, Ph.D., author of The Complete Idiot's Guide To a Healthy Relationship. Your flattering feedback  will keep him from dozing.  He is definitely gonna stay awake for this performance assessment- and help kick -start light conversation, which you may be in the mood for  right about now.  So recall the evening's  erotic events in detail, but don't go too over the top with your carnal   confessions. Whenever a girl raves about the sex but  doesn't give  specifics, I feel like she's  blowing smoke up my  ass," admits Ewan, 27.  To start, you can describe your favorite body lock:  "That  position where I got on top of you and we both straightened our legs.WOW!"  Or, opt  for a little  technique approval: "I really  liked  the  way  you kept so still while I was climaxing."

Your  dirty talk will stay with him long after your lacy thong has been retrieved from the ceiling fan.  "It leaves a very sexy  impression," assures Josh, 25.  plus, there is a long-term benefit  to this booty wrap-up: it imprints your "Yes, please!" moments  in his memory for next time.

Give him a massage : Just because the sex is over doesn't mean it's hands-off.  Massage is a great way to maintain the physical connection for you, while prolonging his bliss buzz.  Obviously, fore play hot spots- such as his privates -will be a tender no-go zone.  "There's nothing worse than a girl who keeps handling your goods after sex,"  complains Matt, 27.  "it's never a good idea.  "Remember, you need to unlock the erogenous zones that will keep your guy  in a state of ongoing pleasure, not pain.

If you crave a more relaxing and sensual  session, position  yourself so that you're lying on your side, facing him.  "Trace light circles on his torso.  starting  at the chest, move around the navel skim the pelvic bone, and continue back up,"  says Steve Capellini, massage therapist and author of Massage For Dummies.  "Or stroke your finger tips  from him collarbone down over his chest to his hip bones  and back  again." These moves allow you to tickle his fancy while still maintaining an intimate post-passion gaze.

When you want him to reciprocate, try to tempt him with a more invigorating touch.  Capellini suggests a technique called percussion.  Have your guy he on his stomach and straddle him. "Bounce the sides of your hands or push and tap your fingertips along his back and buttocks,"  says Capellini.  While you enjoy the tactile thrill of having  your legs wrapped  around him,  your touch encourages increased blood flow, making  him feel  energized  rather than drained...and may even inspire him to return the favour.

Take a shower : When Cosmo asked guys about the most  sexalicious thing women could do after getting busy, this was their  number-one plea:  suggest a shower for two.  It's a no brainier.  Any situation that has you hot, wet, nude, and invading his personal space is bound  to overpower his  post  coital crash response.  "I love being pulled into the shower  by my girlfriend  after sexual .  Her wet body rubbing against meet's all good."

Start by taking turns slowly scrubbing each other's back,  shoulders and neck.  Then press up against your lover for some sexy snuggling under  the  shower stream, running your slippery,  sudsy hands over his back and butt.

The hear-soaked environment not only keeps  your bods super-close, but it also  actually prolongs the post-orgasmic flush of your just-finished booty  session.  Here's how:  "As the hot water hits  your skin, it stimulates blood flow and circulation, which keeps  your body feeling aroused,"  says Sandor Gardos, Ph.D., sexologist based in San Francisco, US.  

It all this post-coital closeness inspires something  frisky to unfold between you and him, go right there.  But ultimately, being  so together after being so intimate is often enough of rush.

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