Adulthood Entry of Boy-Girl

Sex and Health

Masturbation in Males and Females

Dispelling Myths about Sex

Sexual Fantasy

The First Night

How to Arouse a Woman

Erogenous Female Zones

Vaginal Stimulation for Easy Entry

Tips to Enhance  Males Sex Desire

How to Arouse a Man

Use Your Mouth to Arouse him

Different  Charming Postures

Make Sex Hotter

 

Sexual Fantasy

Fantasy means imagination and its range is limitless, so to say, as far as erotic imagination is concerned. A fantasized object may be an animal, movie, any move star some place, enema or diaper. Variable styles of sexual fantasies exhibit  affluence of a person. Some varieties of fantasy are as follows:

Conquest : Element of power is the basic tenet of this fantasy which may be expressed by an inherent tendency to force, seduce or command  and the reverse of it is the fantasy to be commanded which is a flip side of it. since, we are dealing with sex we will take note of fantasies pertaining thereto. Rape or Sodomy or child-abuse are classical example of fantasy, born out of physical will when someone  is humiliated. The purpose is simply to force a person to an abject  submission, in respect of sex. Incest also falls under this category.

Experimentation : Wish to be like a star in a porn movie, be a prostitute to have sex in (forbidden) public places, have sexual activity with some animal. In such cases thrill of the ‘forbidden’ is essential.  Such fantasies are resorted to only when there is a desire to overcome sexual boredom.

Group sex : Here a man fantasies that he is having sex with many women, and women fantasy of having sex with many males. The group sex fantasy  is common  between both the sexes where some ideal hero and heroine are taken as ideal objects for such type of  indulgence.

Switching partners : This the most common form of fantasies where sex with a different partner is  imagined. Here the fantasized partner could be either a relative, teacher, friend, neighbor, a subordinate, sales girl or even an imaginary ideal. The fact remains that some persons, even while having  sex with their partners, often think that if they had enjoyed sex, at that time, with their fantasized ideal, they would have enjoyed sex more intensely. It has been observed an imaginary ideal overpowers sexual behaviour of the fantasizer so much so that he/she  fails to enjoy sex at all.  This maybe considered sign of infidelity.  But most of the people can  never conceal their weakness for a particular fantasy and this  generally results in toning down the heights of sexual pleasure.

We had described earlier that each male or female, during the  pregnancy-marital days, have  preference for a particular type of a (would be ) prospective partner.  If the partner fails to measure up to the standard and form of a fantasy ideal he/say will never reach or ever enjoy orgasm.  Their marital sex act will, never reach or ever enjoy orgasm.  Their marital sex act will, the, be a sheer formality, only a physiological compulsion.  When your mind is elsewhere, you can’t be satisfied with your partner.  This fantasy is common to both men and women. To quote an another  example, if  you see a semi nude woman, you would love your wife also to dress up like her (whose refusal will be a retarding factor in sex play.)

Howsoever, she may try to work you up for sex arousal, you will remain unresponsive  and cold.  This applies to women also. This is one of the leading factors which accounts for breakup of marriages, and results divorce or else extramarital relationships  or, still worse, prostitution or incest. A tradition ridden wife won’t  succumb to the unpious/unethical demands of her husband or backward husbands  would  also  not  respond to his  modern wife’s demands, in this respect.

Watching : It is common fantasy  to indulge in sex act only when they  are watching porn films, movies, or seeing the other couple engaged in sex act.  A person who watches such bedroom scenes of other couples engaged in sex, would ensure that  he/she is not spotted.  By taking a clear  view of the participants, the viewers  would like to act in the same way. Here sexual stimulation is sought to be  practiced in accordance  with the acts enacted by the participating  (viewed) couples.  This type of fantasy is totally different from ‘Voyeurism’ (where  a viewer takes pleasure in watching obscene scene).

Sadism and masochism : In sadism pain is inflicted on the other person, but in masochism one enjoys when pain is inflicted upon him. The victim is tied, flogged, teased, gagged, handcuffed chained, buried, contorted or spanked or when one he himself/herself  is the victim, the above fantasies are acted in the converse form.  A adherent to masochistic fancy admitted that he can’t stand physical pain but wondered as to why that turned him on. In Sadism the real fantasy  arises when a person screams, shouts, begs for mercy.

Idyllic encounters : This is not a rape fantasy. Here tranquility and romance supervene.  When a person visits some  secluded and forlorn place, like some moonlit  beach, some tropical paradise, a secluded and quiet garden, and spots a stranger, where instant  romantic attraction at first  sight surfaces, resulting in an interlude. To our mind, this is simply a mind relaxing exercise to soothe nerves, since no sex act takes place and neither person feels burdened by such a chance encounter. Similar situations may surface while traveling, boating , swimming, during any meeting.  After interaction, of course verbal the strangers take to their respective destinations.

 

Sex During Menses and Pregnancy

Post-Coital Pleasure

Taking initiative in Sex Play

Fear of Sexual  Performance

Food to Enhance  Sexual Potency

Yogic Exercises for Better Sex Life

Homeopathic , Ayurvedic and Acupressure Treatment

The Modern  Techniques and Methods for  Birth Control

Queries for the Married Life

How to Educate About Sex

Important Words of Sex

Proper Atmosphere to Enjoy Sex