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EROTIC TECHNIQUE

 

The art of eroticism lies in finding the right way, the right time and the right place to establish intimacy with another person. Today it is accepted that women enjoy sex just as much as men, and the old 'double standard' of sexual morality has fallen on hard times. Seduction is now a broader term applicable to both sexes meaning 'getting someone in the mood for sex'. Of course there are no magic formulas for a successful seduction but, to start with, there must be a digress of attraction on both sides.
            The way you use your body can transmit very powerful messages to your partner-without saying anything blatantly sexy. Standing close to someone, leaning forward and gazing into someone's eyes are all ways of showing your are attracted. Long lingering looks, even before you get into conversation, can be berry sexy and if you look is returned you can feel confident about making more definite moves. When a man or woman feels sexual attraction, the pupils of the eyes automatically dilate (grow bigger). Theist have proved that most individuals instinctively have a warmer reaction to eyes with a larger than normal pupil area. So the exchange of looks really is a basic part of signaling sexual attraction.

Touching

            Touching someone lightly on the arm as you talk to them or feeling the material of their dress or shirt-ostensibly admiring their fashion sense-can be sexy. Many women are still shy about asking a man for a date. But if you've been getting on well and he doesn't seem forthcoming it should not be too difficult to say, 'I'd really like to meet you again.'

Atmosphere

            Atmosphere is important: most people like to make love in comfortable and clean surrounding, so it is only good manners to make sure the living room and bedroom are as attractive as you can make them. Besides the right atmosphere, talk can be the greatest aphrodisiac of all. Say way you find each other attractive. If you are both relaxed with each other and about sex in general, the first move will probably be a mutual one: you will both move closer together to kiss, embrace and caress. Undressing each others can be very sexy, but people may be self-conscious about their bodies with a new partner, so if there is any sign of embarrassment you should stop. Some couples may find it exciting for the woman to wear peephole bras and open-crotch panties, but the idea is not really appropriate for a first time experience, when a woman does not know how her partner feels about this kind of clothing. However, lots of women do like to feel they are wearing something special for their sensual lover, and pretty lingerie-without being blatantly provocative is something most men will appreciate.

Seduction

            Seduction today is essentially a game for two: you flirt with each other using your body, humour, conversation, touch getting each other in the mood, heightening the excitement, drawing out the experience until you are both ready for sex and the time and place are right.

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