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HEART-THROBBING POSITIONS

 

Sex is not likely to remain very interesting for a couple who, during the course of 40 years or  so, always make love in the same position. It’s traditionally said that men need variety in love-making, but the  truth is that women do too.  It’s very easy for sex to become rather dull and boring after a few years of health in marriage unless both  partners are willing to experiment and innovate with love play, and to try out new  positions of intercourse.
Variations in position  don’t just produce psychological  benefits.  They  also alter the angle at which the penis enters the vagina,  and so create all sorts of new  pressures on the male and female organs, thereby causing unusual and pleasant physical fitness sensations for both husband and wife.  So all the  various positions are definitely worth trying.
How many of them are there?  All over the world  are people who will assure you that there are x positions of intercourse- some say that it is 123, some mention a figure  of 84, white others confidently claim that it is 513.  There are even people who believe fervently that the number is   691 – an obvious confusion with the 169 technique of love play.
In fact, the truth is that there is no definite total number of positions of intercourse.  The reason  for this is quite simple – how do you  define a position?  If you choose to buy one of those expensive books that claim to illustrate hundreds of  different zeroing postures, you’ll find that  number  331 differs from number  332 only by the bending  of a knee or an elbow, or perhaps because the hair is combed backward  rather than forward.  To call these ‘different positions’ is frankly ludicrous.
There is really no point in going into flunky details (which any sensible couple can work out for themselves  anyway).  Nor, I think, is there any value in describing positions which could be achieved only by trained acrobats or contortionists.  Quite obviously, a Russian lady gymnast could manage some quite extraordinary postures in combination with a double jointed male escapologist, but these sort of antics are not likely to be  of the least use to the average couple who only want to bring some extra fun and variety into their  love-making.
So, what we’ll do is describe the basic  positions of love in three sections (Face-to-Face, Rear Entry, and Side Positions)and to mention  the more important  variations.  You and your partner will almost certainly think of refinements for yourselves  and should have tremendous fun in discovering them.

Face-to-face Positions
            MAN ABOVE, WOMAN BENEATH.  This is  without doubt the commonest group of intercourse positions, if only because there  are still so many people  (particularly those who haven’t had the  opportunity to have much sex education) who think that any other way of having  sex is ‘rude’.
            Most  frequently, the woman lies flat on he back with her knees bent so that the soles of her feet are on the bed.  This is the famous  ‘missionary’ position, so called  because  scandalized Victorian preachers are alleged to have  forbidden  the other more uninhibited postures that  members of their flocks chose for love-making.

The missionary position
            The missionary position is certainly quite a good one, and it does allow the man’s public bone to ‘grind’ against the woman’s.  as with all the face-to-face positions however, it’s  a bit difficult for the husband to stimulate the wife’s breasts or (more particularly) her clitoris with his fingers.
            Variation 1.  The first and simplest variation is for the woman just to straighten her legs and to spread  them wide on the  bed.  Entry is a little more difficult with the legs like  this, and the sensation produced is  only slightly (if at all) different from that felt in the basic  position.
            Variation 2. The man  lies with his legs outside the woman’s.  His thighs  squeeze  hers together, and her thighs compress  his penis.  For that reason, this technique is useful if the woman’s vagina has been made loose by childbirth.  However this is a situation which can be  improved.
            Variation 3.  The woman brigs her legs up over the man’s hips  or waist.  This alters the tilt of her pelvis and so gives very good penetration of her vagina.  She can, if she whishes, cross her legs round his middle, so  increasing the sense of  closeness.  There is, by the way, a myth among some people  to the effect that a woman who crosses her legs  during love-making can injure or even kill her partner.  I well  remember  the first time  this dread warning was passed  on to me in the school playground!  Fortunately, it turned out to be complete  nonsense, like so much of the rest of the information that   young people give each other  when  no proper sex educations is available at school.
            Variation 4. This variation is merely an extension  of the last one, but you need to be more supply.  The woman  draws her legs even further up so that she can hook them over her mate’s  shoulders.  This gives very deep penetration indeed, so it’s  important that entry should be gentle.  Don’t start intercourse with this  position  (or any of the other  deep-penetration postures).  It’s  much better to begin with  something else and, if you wish, work up to deep penetration after 10,  20 or even 30 minutes  when the vagina  has had time to  really relax.
Variation 5.   Using a pillow.  In any of the  above  positions, you can produce subtle alterations in the depth and angle of penetration by simple putting a pillow (two  for advanced sensual  lovers) under  the lady’s bottom.  This usually works best when she has her legs in the air, as in variation 3 above.
Variation 6.   Split levels.  The last three techniques we have mentioned also work very  well if the two  partners are on different levels, e.g. if the wife is lying back on the  edge  of the bed while the husband kneels on the floor.  An inventive  couple can think of several such situations – for example, with the wife  sitting in a chair, or perhaps lying back on a high couch while the   husband  stands between her legs.

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