Sexual Behaviour In Youth

ORGASM AND FOREPLAY

An orgasm represents the zenith of human  pleasurable experiences. Orgasm is derived the Greek word orgies, which means to swell with lust. Orgasm is defined  as an explosive, cerebrally encoded, neuromuscular response, at the peak of sexual arousal by psychopathological  stimuli,  the pleasurable sensations of which are experienced  in association with dispensable pelvic physiological  concomitants.

What is an orgasm: An Orgasm represents the zenith of human pleasurable experiences. Orgasm is derived from the Greek word orgies, which means to swell with lust. Orgasm is defined  as an explosive, cerebrally encoded, neuromuscular response, at the peak of sexual arousal by psychopathological stimuli,  pleasurable sensations of which  are experienced   in association  with dispensable pelvic physiological  concomitants.

Why orgasm: Sex is not merely the means to an end.  It is both:  the means to an end (procreations), as well as and end in itself (pleasure). Orgasm is nature's masterstroke.  By providing an inherently sensual pleasure oriented side to our personality, nature has ingeniously  accomplished the dual objective of pleasure and procreation.The pleasure  principle has, is and shall always  remain principle.

Early Orgasmic  Response (EOR):  This is defined as an orgasm that is experienced earlier than one's  idealized expectations, which are within rational limits.

Delayed Orgasmic Response (DOR):  When  orgasm does ultimately occur, but is delayed beyond one's idealized expectations, which are  within rational limits, it is called  delayed orgasmic response.

Impaired Orgasmic Response (IOR):  It is  defined  as a reduction in the intensity of the  orgasmic pleasure.

Absent Orgasmic Response (AOR):  This category  includes cases in which there is complete failure to experience pleasure.

How does one reach Orgasm: When an  individual  has a sexual desire he departs from the normal state and enters into the sexual state and is deemed to have undergone sexual grounding. Sexual grounding Orgasm the sexual state is a state in which the subject becomes  receptive to the perception of stimuli inputs as sexual. 

Once this occurs, psychopathological stimuli arouse the sex center  in the brain when starts sending out impulses, which are usually pleasurable. When such impulses reach  the genitalia, the  resultant increased  flow of  blood   leads to congestion in genitals.  This  phenomenon  is usually manifested as erection in the male and  lubrications in the  female. Further anal stimulation   enhances arousal  and eventually  culminates in orgasm.

What is interplay: Interplay encompasses the whole spectrum  of sexual interaction, that is, the  entire grommet  of motions and emotions between individual indulging in 'play'.
           
Is foreplay important: Yes,  it is  extremely important.  It kindles the desire and marks  the beginning of the interplay.  Adequate  foreplay ensures adequate arousal and promotes sexual compatibility.

Is after play important: Yes. After  play  is as important as foreplay.  Though  penovaginal sex is regarded as the most  intimate and satisfying  from of  sexual activity, this is not always  true.  There are many women  who report "I am not worried about orgasm but I would very much appreciate a bit of love play. 

Vatsyayana, in Kamasutra, has given a lot of emphasis to after play and  he  has mentioned  that  after play is equally, if nor more,  important  than foreplay. Most people enjoy  being held, cuddled, talked to, and partners need to communicate with each other as to what they  prefer. 

Many a time, a woman in her fifties Orgasm so would come and report "Doctor, sex is now far more satisfying  despite  the fact that my husband is unable  to achieve erection ."  Perhaps  he forced to learn Orgasm devote more time to foreplay and after play which takes  away the feeling of mechanical sex and, at times, which he is unable to perform, there is enough warmth and  affection Foreplay introduces and after play  summarizes the crucial interplay.

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