Sexual Behaviour In Youth

POST-COITAL PLEASURE

Having sex knowledge puts men to sleep but wakes women up. So while you’re desperately craving  a little post- coital closeness with your man, he’s  zoned out in front of Ripley’s Believe It Or Not reruns on AXN, or catching some  zzzs. 

Why,  you wonder?  Unfortunately, the cocktail of sex hormones  released after both women and men climax can have totally opposite effects on our  post sex with list:

Studies show that following intercourse, the  male brain  often  goes into a rest state he feels  drained and tired while the woman’s brain is stimulated and desires bonding,” explains.

Michael Gurian, therapist and author of What could he Be Thinking: How A Man’s Mind Really Works.Fear not, though. We’ve overcome those  biological obstacles  and identified  after play pleasures that will satisfy you both. 

Some are designed  to short-circuit his snooze reflex and  electrify his body; others  indulge his just-shagged daze  while feeding your need for intimacy.  Read on to discover the randy moves that will create the  most pleasurable  and satisfying after-sex moments you have had with your man yet.

Pay Him a Carnal Compliment:Guys are suckers for  hearing about their sizzling sex skills. When you mention the matters moves that drove you wild, it strokes his ego and makes him feel virile.

Men can feel anxious about their performance, so they really want to hear it from you that you had a good time in bed,” says Judy Kuriansky, Ph.D., author  of The Complete Idiot’s Guide To A Healthy Relationship. 

Your flattering feedback will keep him from dozing he is definitely gonna stay awake for this performance  assessment, and help  kick-start light conversation, which you may be  in the mood for right about now. So recall the evening’s erotic events in detail, but don’t go too over the top with your carnal confessions. 

Whenever a lovely girl raves about the sex but doesn’t give specifics, I feel like she’s blowing smoke  up my ass,” admits Ewan, 27.  Start, you can describe  your favourite  body lock.

That  position where I got on top of you and we both straightened our legs…WOW!” Or, opt for a little technique approval: “I really liked the way you kept so still while I was climaxing..

Your  dirty talk will stay with him long after your lacy thong has been retrieved  from the ceiling fan. “It leaves a very sexy  impression,” assures Josh, 25.  Plus,  there is a long-term benefit to this booty wrap-up: it imprints your  “Yes,  please!” moments in his memory for next time.

Give Him a Massage: Just because the sex  is over  doesn’t mean it’s  hand-off.  Massage  is great way to maintain that physical connection for you,  while prolonging his bliss buzz. Obviously, forepaly hot spots such as his privates will be  a tender no-go zone. 

There’s nothing worse than a girl who keeps handling  your good after sex,”  complains Matt, 27.  “It’s never a good idea.” Remember, you need to unlock the erogenous zones that will keep your guy in state of on going pleasure, not pain.

If you crave a more relaxing  and sensual session, position yourself so that you’re  lying on your side, facing him:“Trace light circles on his torso. Starting at the chest, move around  the navel, skim the pelvic bone, and continue back up,” says Steve Capellini, massage therapist and author of Massage For Dummies. Or stroke your fingertips from his collarbone down over his chest to his hip bones and back again.” These moves allow you to tickle  his fancy while  still maintaining an intimate post-passion gaze.

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