Sexual Behaviour In Youth

THINGS NECESSARY TO ENJOY SEX

If you wish to enjoy coitus in its entirety do at least, the following preliminaries:

Place: The room where you intend to have coitus should be free from noise, interference and should be neat, clean, airy, well ventilated. The color of bed sheets, curtains, wall paints should conform to personal preference and tastes.

Red color is said to ignite sensuality. Dull, drab, color should find no place in your sleeping room. Color play an important part on the mind. Avoid dark red, blue, green and violet color, as far as possible. Pink cream, fawn color add to sex pleasure.

Dress: Keeping in view your mood, approach, preference and likes and dislikes of your partner, wear only those clothes which are neither too loose or too tight, rather those should be comfortable, revealing, transparent and sexy. Dress holds a unique place in sex act. Don't put on any dress which is likely to stand in the way of your body handling.

Certain couples prefer to wear dresses which expose the bodies, some wish to wear scant clothes or only underwear's. Those who wish to resort to strip-at-ease method should wear only such dresses which can be removed slowly, making way for gradual removal thereof. Some couples prefer to enter in sex in a total nude form. Colour of dresses should be able to heighten your sexual lust.

Personal Hygiene And Bath: It is necessary that a bath with scented water or using cologne, rose water will do away with foul smell from the body. Bad od our is most likely to drive you away from conjugal love, as most people can't withstand foul body od our, which is an impediment in a turn on.

While bathing, take care to wash your mouth, ears armpits, genitals, thigh joints, genitals thoroughly to ensure proper hygiene. Shave the armpits and hair on the pubic region, on and around genitals and use some pleasing, scented and mild cream or lotion to rule out any chance of infections.

When private parts are shaved, creamed /sprayed with lotion, one should experience added flavour in sex, as clean and shaven parts help in an early turn-on. Spray your neck, ears, ear lobes, armpits, chest navel portion with scented sprays but the odour of scents used should be pleasing.

Hair should be dressed and combed in such a way that your partner's choice therefore should be quite visibly felt and noticed. Some persons fondle with their partner's hair with gay abandon. Dark, lengthy, curly hair are preferred by most men. If possible, wash your head with same fragrant soap so that the pleasing smell stays for a longer period; at least before, during and after coitus.

Breasts hold an important part in sex arousal. Clean the teats and areola thoroughly so that when your partner sucks, kisses the nipples, no bad taste enters into his mouth, under portion of skin folds of breasts should be cleaned properly. Some males hate to see hair on nipples or/and areola. So, if there is any hair thereon, pluck the same. Nipple-sucking is a pleasant and cheerful exercise.

Use of Lubricants :There should be no aversion and hesitation in applying some cream, oil or any other lubricant to penis, glans of penis, vulva and vagina but it must be ensured that such lubricants are non allergic, non-offensive, non-irritating, thus causing no harm to either partners knowledge of sex organs.

If the male penis is thick and long but the vaginal cavity is too narrow to admit penetrator or when there is extreme pain when penis is inserted into the vagina. The matter of fact is that during the course of pre-coital play (or foreplay), the vaginal fluids lubricate the vaginal canal profusely, when use of any sort of lubrication is hardly called for.

Moreover, vagina is such a cosy, freshy, tender and muscular organ which has the capacity to enlarge itself to such an extent that length and thickness of penis is hardly of any consequence, as the vagina, due to its flexibility exercises  can admit any 'size of penis'.

In one or two initial sexual unions, there may be some pain during insertion of penis but, due to its quality of adaptability, the vagina adjusts itself accordingly. When the penis penetration can be done without any difficulty, there is hardly any need to the use of any lubricant but, if the situation warrants, there is hardly any justification or need for avoiding use of any harmless and agreeable lubricant.

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